Personal Power

What if We’ve Had it Backwards? Re: Expanding Success

Business, Human Design
What if we've had it backwards? Re: Expanding Success.

Last weekend, I was voice noting with my chart twin, Vivian. Believe it or not, Vivian and I randomly found each other on Instagram and through a few odd coincidences, discovered that we were born 15 minutes apart. Our human design charts are identical. Having her in my life has been such a gift because in so many ways, she’s my mirror. In our voice notes, I was sharing with her how I struggle to apply traditional business advice. This doesn’t stop me from trying. Last year, I got swept up in creating SEO-focused human design content, which resulted in so many new eyes on my website, but zero sales...

Struggling in Your Business is Not Making You a Better Person

Business
Struggling in your business is not making you a better person

Last summer, I met Stephanie Koehler in San Miguel for one of her quantum energy sessions. She was going to help me break through to the next income level in my business. At one point, we made a list of twenty-something beliefs that might be holding me back.  She explained that she would read each one aloud and use her modality to energetically clear them. All I had to do was signal when I felt a shift, and she’d move onto the next. Well, one by one, she went through the list… And I had little to no reaction.They all felt… neutral. It was almost as if I had already...

More Money Won’t Heal Scarcity or Uncertainty—But This Will

Business
More money won't heal scarcity or uncertainty, but this will.

Summers are always a slower season in my business. Maybe yours too. This summer, I had one client pause to focus on travel and another complete a second round of deep work together.  Five years ago, this would have sent me into a spiral.  🌀 I would’ve felt anxious about the “lost” income.🌀 I would’ve made it mean that I was failing as a business owner.🌀 I would’ve thrown myself into over-working, over-giving, and over-proving in order to fill the gap. This would’ve looked like packing my calendar with networking events, giving away a ton of free coaching sessions, and throwing together a random offer I thought people needed. Behind...

The Offer You Love Isn’t Selling—Here’s Why

Business
The offer you love isn't selling. Here's why.

Last week, I had one of those piercing, “oof, this was uncomfortable, but exactly what I needed to see” kind of coaching sessions with a client. Let me begin by saying—this client is a genius at what she does. People are eager to enter her world and experience her guidance and talent. On paper, money is flowing into her business. But the sales she’s making?  They aren’t the sales she wants to be making. The majority of her energy is being funneled into her done-for-you offer. It’s what people keep asking for, but it’s also the thing that’s draining her. This work consumes so much of her time that she has little leftover to...

Being a Business Owner is Lonely…

Business
Being a business owner is lonely

Here’s a truth I don’t think we talk about enough: Leadership is lonely.Being a business owner is lonely. You can try to talk to your partner about the emotional weight you feel from being a service-provider in a world that is so heavy right now, but they just don’t get it. You can try to talk to your friends about what’s going on in your business, but they don’t get it either. You can try to talk to your team, but you’re here to lead them first, not be their friend. Who are you relying on to feel supported and resourced?Who is holding you, while you hold everyone else? Who...

How One City Changed the Way I Lead

Business, Manifestation, Travel
How one city changed the way I lead

If you’ve been around long enough, you know I struggled big time with adjusting to life in San Miguel de Allende last year. I had been in Sayulita for so long, I didn’t know who I was outside of it. This year, coming back has felt like coming home—not just to a place, but to the version of me I had left behind. While I’m a firm believer that our power is sourced from within, there’s something to be said about the power our environment calls us into ✨ When I first stepped foot inside Casa Kiri Midoki last summer, I felt uncomfortable. I felt unworthy of inhabiting a space...

The Soul of Your Business Lives Here 🕯️

Business
The soul of your business lives here

There’s a question that’s been echoing in my soul ever since my Spanish teacher asked it last week: “¿A que te dedicas?” Where Americans ask: “What do you do?”Mexicans ask: “What are you dedicated to?” This kind of question doesn’t call you outward, it calls you inward—toward the foundation that your life and work are built upon; toward the rituals that shape your frequency. As a business owner who refuses to build success by burning out or betraying what’s true for you, your foundation and frequency aren’t optional—they’re essential. If we explored a new context for leadership in Rooted Visibility, this month we’re identifying the rituals that allow you to actually embody it. One of...

Meet the Most Potent Version of You ⚡️

Business
Meet the most potent version of you.

It’s important for you to know this: Being more you in your business doesn’t mean that taking action will always feel easy or effortless. Sometimes, it will feel hard. Sometimes, it will require courage. The truth is—the actions that feel most authentic and alive will often come with resistance. They are the actions sitting just outside your comfort zone. They are the actions that will stretch and expand you. They will ask you to let more of you out. This past week alone, I found myself stepping beyond my comfort zone more than once. Kicking off the SUSTAINABILITY SESSIONS was one. [Thank you so much to everyone who came—you made it pure magic ✨] The other? Starting...

Stillness is the New Strategy 🌿

Business
Stillness is the new strategy.

I caught myself slipping into old ways this week. After listening to a Saturn in Aries masterclass, I felt inspired to overhaul my freebie and its email sequence. Soon enough, inspiration turned to urgency. And before I knew it, I was lost in my head [and ChatGPT], obsessing over every detail. 💭 What should I rename it?💭 What kind of messaging will resonate most deeply with my ideal client?💭 What kind of funnel will align with Aries energy? I went from expanded and excited to overwhelmed and overstimulated. The more I tried to “get it right,” the more I disconnected from what felt true and alive.  This is how the...

A New Way of Doing Business is Calling 🐚

Business

It’s hard to believe it’s been six weeks since I actively marketed my business. No networking. No emails. No social media. I’ve been in a quiet season of contemplation. And it’s felt so good to sink into my life. To unplug from the noise and let my channel run clear. To focus wholeheartedly on pulling potent medicine from, and for, my clients. I finally feel ready to return. But not from the same place—from somewhere new and old; from somewhere remembered. When I traveled to Massachusetts to visit my family and meet my baby nephew in April, I didn’t plan on pressing pause in my business, but that’s what wanted...