Last weekend, I was voice noting with my chart twin, Vivian.
Believe it or not, Vivian and I randomly found each other on Instagram and through a few odd coincidences, discovered that we were born 15 minutes apart. Our human design charts are identical.
Having her in my life has been such a gift because in so many ways, she’s my mirror.
In our voice notes, I was sharing with her how I struggle to apply traditional business advice.
This doesn’t stop me from trying.
Last year, I got swept up in creating SEO-focused human design content, which resulted in so many new eyes on my website, but zero sales from strangers on the internet.
Most recently, I tried applying a mentor’s messaging framework to my copy and got so lost in my head trying to figure it out that I spent hours at my desk with nothing to show for it.
I was sharing with Vivian that maybe I haven’t achieved a six-figure year yet because I haven’t been able to master application.
And Vivian—god bless her—mirrored back that we’re not here to succeed in traditional or mainstream ways.
The majority of our body graph is made up of human design gates in the individual knowing circuit.
This is energy that innovates, not conforms.
We also have a 3/6 human design profile, meaning we’re here to experiment our way into embodiment.
In that moment, I realized something profound: What if I had it backwards?
What if I haven’t crossed a six figure year yet because I keep getting sidetracked trying to fit into someone else’s mold?
What if trying to do it the traditional way is the survival strategy?
There’s nuance here, of course. I do believe we need exposure to different methods and ways of doing things.
But what we don’t need is to let those ways dominate ours.
Yes, learn.
But don’t contort.
Yes, observe.
But don’t conform.
Yes, apply.
But make it your own.
Let what you’re learning come through your lens. Your intuition. Your way. You don’t need to color over the exact same lines someone else already has.
🪞 This is the power of having a mirror in your business.
Because truly, I am not here to expand my success in typical ways. And the more I stay connected to this truth, the less I get sidetracked and lose my way.
I share this because I know I’m not alone in this experience.
If you’re honest with yourself, where have you been trying to succeed by conforming to someone else’s mold?
Where have you been following advice that looks good on paper, but leaves you feeling disconnected, scattered, or quietly questioning yourself?
And what part of you already knows there is another way forward—one that feels more true, more grounded, more you?
These are some of the questions we address inside REINVENTION.
In this steady, relational space, you’re not handed answers, but supported in remembering your own.
We get clear on what’s next in your business and weave together the structure, soulful strategy, and inner identity necessary to bring it to life.
We uncover which survival strategies are quietly running the show, and gently guide you back to your own timing and truth.
This is where you get to have success that feels sustainable and soulfully true to you.
With love & coloring outside the lines,
-Kayla
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