Think about the thing you want, but you never seem to get.
How are YOU keeping it out of your life?
When I ask my Clients this question, they tend to get confused. “Why would I keep what I want out of my life, Kayla? I want it! I wouldn’t do that.“
Then, they try to convince me that the REAL reason they don’t have what they want is because of someone else or the circumstances they’re chained to.
Other people can be a bitch.
Circumstances can be a bitch.
But they are not the reason you don’t have what you want.
It can feel like other people or circumstances are to blame, but this mentality takes you out of the driver’s seat and convinces you that you have zero control to change what you’re currently experiencing in your life.
The truth is—you always have a CHOICE.
You make a choice to stay in a relationship that doesn’t feed your soul.
You make a choice to stay in a crappy job.
You even make a choice to be angry with your partner or frustrated with your crappy job.
BUT, it’s never too late to choose something different.
Now, I know this doesn’t always feel realistic. It might feel impractical to leave a partnership when you have kids to think about. It might feel impractical to leave your current job when you don’t have another one lined up. Choosing something radically different will not *POOF* you into a new reality overnight, but in every moment, you still have a choice over how you react and how you interpret your current situation.
Sometimes, you can’t even see the other choices available to you because they’re hidden from your consciousness. You’re Ego is smart. It has cunning practice in hiding the different choices from your view. It knows the exact buttons to push to keep you from doing things differently. It wants you to believe that everything outside of you is the problem because then you’ll stay safe and small.
If you ask for what you want from your partner, you’re selfish {and that’s the last thing you want to be}.
If you leave your crappy job, you’ll run out of money {and then you’ll live on the streets}.
There’s a story weaving an untrue, scary truth underneath every disempowering choice you continue to make and until you make a conscious choice to choose something different, you will continue to keep what you want out of your life.
Is that something you can live with?
Knowing you, it’s not.
You want to grow and be the very best you can be.
You want to master every area of your life and climb to new heights.
You want to evolve and transform and positively impact those around you.
And here’s what it will require: Taking responsibility for everything that you do or do not experience in your life. When you take responsibility for your circumstances, a force awakens within. When you feed this force with choices that empower you, magic will happen. The ethers of the Universe will rearrange. And everything you want will come into view much faster than it would have before.
Welcome to being the Leader of your life.
What will you choose from here?
With light, love, & awakening,
-Kayla
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